Really interesting. Mar 27, Ireyon rated it did not like it Recommends it for: No one. Shelves: terrible. I've read this book as part of research for a University group work pertaining to violence in society and how gender affects it. It was not a pleasant experience, for entirely the wrong reasons.
This book is shoddily researched and, hilariously enough, bigoted in itself, with not a single spark of self-reflection or irony. What I expected was in-depth research about the causes of violence and how to adress it. What I got instead is a badly cobbled together mess that once again trods out the "all w I've read this book as part of research for a University group work pertaining to violence in society and how gender affects it.
What I got instead is a badly cobbled together mess that once again trods out the "all women are victims all men are entitled morons" chestnut. The title is slightly misleading: This book is an us-versus-them mentality taken to its logical conclusion. There are no "neutral" people. You march either in lockstep with the writer or you are an apologist for violence towards women. The only moment of anything approaching enjoyment I got when reading this book was when I realized that the male author unwittingly subjects women to the very idea equality-minded people and humanists are fighting againt: That all women are in a state of perpetual vicimhood, helpless damsels who are powerless unless men come to their rescue.
When a ridiculously small fraction of men behave violently some of them towards women that automatically makes it a problem all men are responsible to solve. Would this logic still hold up if I were to suggest that when a ridiculously small fraction of women beat their husbands, all women should be lectured about it? No, of course not. Because the assumption will be made that these women are outliers on the "typical female" spectrum. Women are not expected to be violent, men are. People are more likely to believe me were I to say "My boyfriend assaulted me!
This book implies that not only is it the duty of all men to protect all women, it manages to be simultaneously sexist towards men and women. The books' greatest sin, in my opinion, is to imply that someone's opinion must be wrong because they are on a certain part of the political spectrum. I regret ever reading this and I hope that I will never have to take another book like this into my hands. I would give this book zero stars if I could but my only consolation will have to be that at least the author didn't get money from me on account of it belonging to my local library.
If you want to learn about gender equality, this book is not for you. This is preaching to the choir of the highest order. Aug 15, Elizabeth Hall rated it it was amazing. As Mr. Katz states many times throughout the book, this change is good for men as well as women, for men are deeply affected by the violence entrenched in our definition of masculinity—they are affected as sons, as boyfriends, husbands, fathers, brothers, friends, and victims. One of the best things about this book is its honesty. He also pays tribute to the many women who have shaped his thoughts about gender violence and the groundbreaking and important work female feminists have done to increase both awareness and services for the victims of sexual assault and battery.
In order for people to understand and ultimately work together to prevent it, it is first necessary for them to engage in a great deal of personal and collective introspection. After opening with some facts about violence against women for example, nearly one-third of American women report being physically or sexually abused by a husband or boyfriend at some point in their lives , Katz examines how our media deals with this violence.
Katz discusses this aspect of rape culture along with many others—street harassment, the proliferation of degrading and demeaning porn some of which he describes in detail along with the normalization of strip clubs and prostitution. How can we move past this problem, for the good of both women and men? Katz developed this program, along with others, at Northeastern University in The program is effective in the military as well, and the author has created a version for use with the Marines.
The Macho Paradox provides practical advice and much-needed critical insight about both masculinity and rape culture. I consider it an absolute must-read, a game-changer in our societal struggle for emotional healing, wholeness, and equality. Oct 14, Brooke rated it it was amazing. This book is written for men but I read it so I could know whether to recommend it to the men in my life. Feb 03, Janiece rated it liked it. In this book, he expands on this - he makes great points about how it is our culture rather than a few troubled individual men who are responsible for the epidemic of violence against women.
He points out that because men are the main perpetrators of violence against women, men must be included in the conversation and action towards a solution. It is not enough not to commit these acts oneself - men must also speak out against other men who are sexist or violent.
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It is all men who must take a stand. The wider context of societal pressures contributing to rape culture is explored. Katz also tells us about some of the great programs he has done in this area. There is no evidence that he talked to any women in the sex industry, which contributes to his one-sided view. This is not to say there are never problems in the sex industry but he is clearly firmly on the negative side, with no leeway, which seem a bit paternalistic of him, ironically.
It could have had a hard editorial prune and been reduced half the length, making the same points and saving everybody time. Dec 18, Tatton rated it it was amazing Recommends it for: everyone. Jackson Katz's approach is simple and profound. This book reframes the issue of violence against women as men's violence against women.
He says that violence against women has traditionally been seen as a "women's issue" but that we must come to see it as a "men's issue" because men commit the vast majority of violence. He clearly illustrates how masculinity is a concept that needs to be redefined in order to prevent violence against women, and violence in general. It is surely one of those book Jackson Katz's approach is simple and profound. It is surely one of those books that will permanently alter your perception. Everyone who has an interest in anti-sexist work must read this.
Feb 25, Martin rated it really liked it.
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Great resource, I think every male-identified men should read this book. What he's saying isn't revolutionary to those involved with feminism or violence prevention, but it is a sad truth that many men simply do not understand how patriarchy, masculinities, and their own behavior harm everyone in society. Reading this book will bridge, or at least shorten, this gap of understanding, and just by understanding what he is saying will do us a lot of good. This book and bell hooks' writings should be Great resource, I think every male-identified men should read this book.
This book and bell hooks' writings should be required reading in school curricula. Sep 30, Kaigham rated it really liked it. This book has made me look at everyday situations in a different light and more aware of latent and subconscious cultural pressures that men largely unknowingly are part of. Recommend this to all my male and female friends.
May 24, Carmen something rated it liked it. Katz has been a trailblazer in this field--I am using excerpted chapters in some of my work. I understand he had some conflicts with his publisher about what would make his book sell, which may have resulted in a finished product that doesn't necessarily represent his work fully. That said, this is a powerful text for anyone involved in the struggle to challenge men's violence against women.
Jun 10, Keith Weir rated it it was amazing Shelves: social-justice. This is an amazing book, and one that all men should read. It's not always an easy, or comfortable read, but it is an incredibly important book, and one that is very needed in our Patriarchal culture! A Highly recommended, book that will open your eyes, and challenge you to live a better life. Apr 11, Janelle Bonura rated it it was amazing.
I have a special place in my heart for Jackson Katz. He has an incredible ability to reach men and get them to listen and pay attention to gender issues and issues of violence and abuse. An absolute must read for all. I want to share this with every person, especially every man, in my life. May 09, Carla rated it really liked it Shelves: sexuality. When he spoke on campus last year, I was mortified by the response from the general audience ignorant and overwhelmingly misogynistic but I was unbelievably impressed with his message and his decorum.
Speaking with him before and after the TLC event was an absolute pleasure. Feb 06, Matthew Fay rated it it was amazing. It's simple: if you're a man, you need to read this book. Jul 01, Tanya rated it it was ok. The author hits the same points over and over again. Dec 04, Kristine Olsen rated it really liked it. Lots of great perspectives, questions and possible solutions to dealing with why there is so much violence perpetrated by men, especially with respect to women. Yes, men are victims too. A very engaging read and something that I would recommend to anyone who wants a male perspective on male violence.
First published in , this book as current events and dialogue have pointed out, is still timely and important read. As a leading anti-sexist teacher, trainer, and leader, Katz speaks a lot of truth to power and places the problem in a digestible context by those willing to see pass the binary barriers to an earnest and necessary dialogue of how women and men can interrelate and how men can rise to the challenge without suffering the feared loss of masculinity or having "gone to the other s First published in , this book as current events and dialogue have pointed out, is still timely and important read.
As a leading anti-sexist teacher, trainer, and leader, Katz speaks a lot of truth to power and places the problem in a digestible context by those willing to see pass the binary barriers to an earnest and necessary dialogue of how women and men can interrelate and how men can rise to the challenge without suffering the feared loss of masculinity or having "gone to the other side.
I'd certainly like to see an update to this book. I wasn't necessarily fond of its loose organization and repetition. Dec 08, Jerrid Kruse rated it really liked it. This book tackles the truth that sexual violence is a male issue. The book starts with statistics to established the problem and then moves into possible explanations for why men act the way they do social conditioning is the short version.
Then the book explores ways that individuals and institutions can work to be anti-sexist. The book is well-written and provides many important insights that might be useful to educators, leaders, and the general public, but particularly those who identify a This book tackles the truth that sexual violence is a male issue. The book is well-written and provides many important insights that might be useful to educators, leaders, and the general public, but particularly those who identify as male.
Sep 06, Andrea rated it it was amazing. I highly recommend this book to anyone -male or female - interested in the dynamics of gender politics. It is a real eye-opener regarding the structural oppression women still face in western societies. Mar 08, Toni rated it liked it.
I think every person should read this to get an awesome view point of masculinity and how sexual violence is not only a woman's issue, but a man's issue. Although the content is great and the stories are awesome, I found it really circular and hard to get through. Dec 12, Jesus rated it liked it. A good, provocative read It felt burdensome to read for stretches, and I don't think it needed to.
Mar 29, Jon rated it it was amazing. Every man should read this book. Katz throws down the gauntlet and describes what manhood should aspire to in the 21st century. Jan 02, Danielle rated it it was amazing. This book has completely changed my life. Jackson Katz is a captivating writer and feminist. He conjures multiple issues that people refuse to discuss. Oct 11, Kristen Harrell rated it really liked it. This book as been an excellent tool to assist in working with students who struggle to understand the impacts of their behavior.
The book is informative and does not attack with its message. Mar 30, Russell rated it really liked it. Lots of sobering examples and statistics, but I'd have liked more advice on how to help. Then again, "knowing is half the battle. There are no discussion topics on this book yet. Readers also enjoyed. Social Science. Self Help. About Jackson Katz.
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Jackson Katz. JacksonKatz is one of America's leading anti-sexist male activists. An educator, author, filmmaker, and cultural theorist, he is internationally recognized for his groundbreaking work in the field of gender violence prevention education and critical media literacy. He has lectured on hundreds of college and high school campuses and has conducted hundreds of professional trainings, seminars, and wo JacksonKatz is one of America's leading anti-sexist male activists.
He has lectured on hundreds of college and high school campuses and has conducted hundreds of professional trainings, seminars, and workshops in the U. He is the co-founder of the Mentors In Violence Prevention MVP program, the leading gender violence prevention initiative in professional and college athletics.
He is the director of the first worldwide domestic and sexual violence prevention program in the United States Marine Corps.
He is also the creator and co-creator of educational videos for college and high school students, including Tough Guise: Violence, Media, and the Crisis in Masculinity , Wrestling With Manhood and Spin the Bottle: Sex, Lies and Alcohol Read more about Jackson Katz. Books by Jackson Katz. Trivia About The Macho Paradox No trivia or quizzes yet. Quotes from The Macho Paradox Then I ask just the men: What steps do you guys take, on a daily basis, to prevent yourselves from being sexually assaulted?
At first there is a kind of awkward silence as the men try to figure out if they've been asked a trick question.
The silence gives way to a smattering of nervous laughter. Occasionally, a young a guy will raise his hand and say, 'I stay out of prison. What steps do you take on a daily basis to prevent yourselves from being sexually assaulted?
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Women throughout the audience immediately start raising their hands. As the men sit in stunned silence, the women recount safety precautions they take as part of their daily routine. Here are some of their answers: Hold my keys as a potential weapon. Lock all the windows when I sleep, even on hot summer nights.
Don't get on elevators with only one man, or with a group of men. Two boys opened fire on a schoolyard full of girls, killing four and one female teacher. But there is a framework of explanation that goes much further than most of those routinely offered. It does not involve some incomprehensible, mysterious force. It is so straightforward that some might incorrectly dismiss it as unworthy of mention.
Even after a string of school shootings by mostly white boys over the past decade, few Americans seem willing to face the fact that interpersonal violence—whether the victims are female or male—is a deeply gendered phenomenon. Obviously both sexes are victimized. But one sex is the perpetrator in the overwhelming majority of cases.
The Jonesboro massacre was in fact a gender crime. The shooters were boys, the victims girls. With the exception of a handful of op-ed pieces and a smattering of quotes from feminist academics in mainstream publications, most of the coverage of Jonesboro omitted in-depth discussion of one of the crucial facts of the tragedy. The older of the two boys reportedly acknowledged that the killings were an act of revenge he had dreamed up after having been rejected by a girl.
This is the prototypical reason why adult men murder their wives. If a woman is going to be murdered by her male partner, the time she is most vulnerable is after she leaves him. The gender crime aspect of the Jonesboro tragedy was discussed in feminist publications and on the Internet, but was largely absent from mainstream media conversation.
Jonesboro was not so much a radical deviation from the norm—although the shooters were very young—as it was melodramatic evidence of the depth of the problem. Susana Benavidez 's review Jan 18, A captivating blend of history, facts and the human tale of sacrifice The writing is powerful and draws you in with Roberto's mountain life and then keeps a firm hold of you as the chapters jump from his story to overlaying history of the times.
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